It seems you are living in a good marriage and you sure have all the ingredients you need to make it a great one.
In order to grow it into an even better marriage, based on your answers in this quiz, we would recommend you and your spouse to focus on ‘celebrating your differences‘.
One of the hardest parts of marriage can be continually adjusting to all the ways our spouse is different from us.
(I mean, come on, who even parks the car like that, am I right, ladies?)
However, if we can rise above the differences, and learn to celebrate them, rather than allow them to get between us, we can experience an emotional intimacy that’ll deepen our bond and connection with each other.
We all have this innate desire to be loved for exactly who we are, including your spouse.
The greatest gift we can give our spouse is to celebrate and love their differences, and embrace and love our own, too.
This isn’t something we should expect to change overnight, however, with consistency in expressing different opinions kindly & openly & giving each other the space for growth, you’ll undoubtedly experience a newfound closeness and freedom in your marriage.
We know the best way to get you started is to start with YOU. Say what? Seems a little unfair, right? Don’t worry, we will pull your spouse into this soon.
However, we believe that the BEST way you can work on your marriage is to work on yourself first. We can’t control our spouse (believe me, we’ve tried), but we can control ourselves and the actions we take.
The first action we’d like to encourage you to take is to go and check out your email, as we just sent you a tool designed specifically with you in mind.
In this way, we will help you get to the bottom of how you can immediately help & take action to celebrate the differences in your own marriage.
(In reading through this answer, please do keep in mind that it’s based on a limited number of questions and standard answers. Therefore, this answer may represent a skewed answer.)
We are Kim and Cheyanne Cleyman, a European-American married couple living out our fairytale romance in Belgium, Europe.
Sharing a passion for love and marriage, we help happily married couples take their marriage from good to great, for ever after.