It seems you are living in a good marriage and you sure have all the ingredients you need to make it a great one.
In order to grow it into an even better marriage, based on your answers in this quiz, we would recommend you and your spouse to focus on ‘effective & healthy feedback‘.
Effective & Healthy Feedback
Most of us know what feedback is, however, how to do so effectively in a way our spouse can fully understand is a whole other story.
In our marriage, we often have to “over communicate” in order to comprehend because of our language barrier and many cultural differences.
Sometimes, over communicating isn’t the problem, it’s the comprehension. Perhaps your spouse doesn’t see your feedback as helpful, and instead, takes it as a criticism, and vice-versa.
If you can effectively learn to give and also receive feedback with your spouse, you will experience a deeper intimacy that’ll take your marriage to the next level.
We know the best way to get you started is to start with YOU. Say what? Seems a little unfair, right? Don’t worry, we will pull your spouse into this soon.
However, we believe that the BEST way you can work on your marriage is to work on yourself first. We can’t control our spouse (believe me, we’ve tried), but we can control ourselves and the actions we take.
The first action we’d like to encourage you to take is to go and check out your email, as we just sent you a tool designed specifically with you in mind.
In this way, we will help you get to the bottom of how you can immediately help & take action to practice healthy and effective feedback in your own marriage.
(In reading through this answer, please do keep in mind that it’s based on a limited number of questions and standard answers. Therefore, this answer may represent a skewed answer.)
We are Kim and Cheyanne Cleyman, a European-American married couple living out our fairytale romance in Belgium, Europe.
Sharing a passion for love and marriage, we help happily married couples take their marriage from good to great, for ever after.